Hot, steamy, rocking sex is more than mouths, hands and genitals. Mind-blowing, Rocking Sex is created first in the mind, then in the environment, and then in the body.
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That being said, I am sure you have a pretty good idea on what to do when you’re in bed. But what happens before you get naked? Many people forget this crucial step, that’s why I made this for you.
7 Secrets to Rocking Sex:
1. You’ve got it, now flaunt it.
Don’t be shy! Your partner has already seen you naked. If it’s your first time with a new lover, they already think you’re delicious or they wouldn’t be doing the horizontal mambo with you.
2. Confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear.
You can’t feel confident if you aren’t looking or feeling your best. So, get your hair done. Shave all your parts (sexspecially down there)! Get a facial, a mani-pedi, and/or a massage. Take care of you so you can bring your ‘A’ game. (Guys, this goes for you, too!)
3. Get daily turn-ons with Seanlai and Lindsey!
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4. Go lingerie shopping together or surprise your lover.
A word of caution, make sure your purchase turns your lover on too! It doesn’t have to be lacy and see-thru. A client of mine gets so turned on when his lover puts on a plain white t-shirt and sexy panties. Learn what arouses you both.
5. Set the mood.
Sex often happens in the dark and that means you can miss out on some great opportunities to explore. I have a laser light that looks like the night sky that I turn on before every sexy session. The one in the picture is the one I’ve been using for 6 years.
6. Be ready for anything!
Create a toy box, or bag that you can get to easily during sex. Make sure vibrators, dildos etc are clean and charged. Keep lube on top. Seanlai and Lindsey are big fans of Organic Aloe Lube by Promescent. But whatever brand you use, keep it handy!
7. Be open to anything!
No matter how long you’ve been with someone I PROMISE you there are things they haven’t told you about what they would like to do (or do again). Maybe you haven’t given them your whole play book either, when would NOW be a good time to try something new?
What are some other things that you do to make sex extra spicy? Get in the comments and let us know!
Until Next Time,
Stay Sexy and Rock their World!.